First off, thank you for your honesty. I feel you are so real with it in every post you deliver. So refreshing.
As for my question,
My man is a freak, love him to death, sex is great but when he asks me to talk dirty to him, particularly when I’m 4 fingers shoved deep in his asshole, I tend to go blank.
a big part of dirty talk is knowing what position you are talking to them from, are you talking submissively or dominantly? Are you asking for orders or giving them? I don’t know what your man’s preference is, you do.
Porn and erotic lit are mild sources of inspiration. I have other techniques that I keep up my sleeve, not for the masses.